How to Take Better Selfies: 6 Tips to Capturing the Best Version of You

I can’t be the only one who feels like my “selfie” game could use a little boost, right?

Sometimes, as I scroll through dozens of my own selfies, I just get the feeling that something’s… well, missing. I’ve even caught myself thinking, “Maybe I’m too old to master this millennial art,” but then I remind myself—no way! I can be as selfie-savvy as anyone!

If you’re like me and feel like the angle is off, the lighting isn’t quite right, or that little spark just isn’t there, I’m here to help!

What I’ve come to realize is that taking great selfies isn’t about perfection; it’s about capturing the real, beautiful you. With a few simple tips, you’ll be snapping effortless selfies that are flattering and build your confidence!

1. Lighting

Lighting is everything when it comes to taking a flattering selfie. Natural light is your best friend, especially soft, diffused light—think the golden hour just before sunset or a cloudy day by a big window. This type of lighting evens out skin tones and reduces harsh shadows. Avoid overhead lights that can cast dark shadows under your eyes or make the image feel flat.

Pro Tip: If you’re indoors, position yourself facing a window for that dreamy, lit-from-within look.

2. Angles

Angles make all the difference! Experiment with holding your phone slightly above eye level and tilting your chin slightly down. This can highlight your eyes and define your jawline. Every face is unique, so try a few positions to discover what makes you feel confident and seen.

Pro Tip: Turn your face slightly to the side for a softer, more dimensional look. Full-on front angles can feel harsh for some people; a slight turn can add an instant glow.

3. Expression

A selfie captures more than just an image; it reflects a moment, a feeling, and you. Think about the vibe you want—joyful, relaxed, sultry? Whatever it is, try channeling that energy right before snapping the photo. Genuine emotion often shines brighter than any pose.

Pro Tip: If you feel stuck, try laughing out loud or thinking of a memory that makes you feel amazing. It’ll make your expression more natural and give your photos that touch of authenticity that no filter can replicate!

4. Background

Your background should enhance, not distract from, your selfie. Whether it’s a chic wall, a cozy nook, or an outdoor scene, let the setting complement your look. And if you’re going for a minimalist vibe, a plain wall works wonders. Also, pay attention to anything that might accidentally photobomb the shot—keep it clean and simple.

Pro Tip: Look for colors that work with your outfit or makeup to make your selfie pop without overpowering it!

5. Editing

Editing can be a great way to refine your selfie, but remember that less is often more. Stick to subtle adjustments like brightness, contrast, and maybe a hint of saturation to bring out the colors. Skip the over-the-top filters that completely change your features; instead, focus on minor tweaks that make you feel like your most fabulous self.

6. Practice!

The more selfies you take, the more comfortable you’ll become with the process. You’ll learn what lighting, angles, and expressions make you feel best. And remember—every selfie doesn’t have to be “Insta-perfect.” They’re for you, to capture a moment or just to feel good in your own skin.

Taking selfies is a fun, creative way to celebrate who you are right now! Embrace the process, experiment, and most importantly, enjoy the journey. Every selfie you take can be a little reminder of your unique beauty and confidence.

Do you have tips on how to take better selfies? I’d love to hear from you! Send me a message with the button below! I read every message I get!

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